hi there! i use a ton of labels but to cut down on them a bit; i'm aroace-spec, polyamorous, nonbinary, and marsic, but that's a lot so i usually just call myself aroace, enby, and queer. i use any pronouns except for she/her and am cool w/ just about any names, though i prefer noun-based ones. glad to see a bunch of other queer/trans folk here; we seem to thrive on petsites